so before i left for bootcamp and ex of mine rented a hotel for me since i was shippin out of maryland and my familii doesnt live there aniimore. durin the two weeks that i was in maryland i met a girl thru a friend that i fell for fast..she was five years younger than me but she was soo cute and mature..so i thought. i was sneakin around doin some dirtii ass shyt using my ex car without tellin her that i was usin to see this girl that i wanted to get involved with. well the night i left for bootcamp my ex went to see this girl and told her we were still togetha.. long story short i get a "Dear John" letter at bootcamp that breaks my moral..especiallii since i have been writin her 5 page letters everii night. i got over it fast though..three days later and that whole ordeal was forgotten..tyme moves so fast when your in that environment..when your up and busii for 16 hours a day the outside world onlii exists in your dreams and the letters you get from home.
the ironic thing about my division and brother Div in bootcamp was that there were alot of gay or bisexual females..we were lyke a familii..there was even a couple that joined on the buddii system. we were all out also..i thought i would have to hide who i was and who i chose to love when actuallii no one hide it. aniiway thats another blog.
after bootcamp and tons of craziiness i was sent to pensacola, florida for my A and C schools to learn my job..i wasnt the onlii one that came..about 30 of us in all..once we got here we all became and even closer familii being in a new place and that is how i found out that one of the girls i had onlii spoke to once in bootcamp was bi..i dont normallii date bi girls..but she was different so we started dating spendin all our tyme together, but being verii discrete..eventho there were tons of lesbians in the barracks where i stayed..well there turned out to be alot of hate in the air because we got snitched on..but the worst part about it was that some of our so called "familii" were not goin to tell us they were jus gonna let us get kicked out in order to keep from gettin caught up in the punishment..but one tru friend told me everiithyng and we adverted the near disaster of a page 13 and possible discharge..we played it real cool after that for the remainder of the tyme she was here..her school ended way before mine..we tried long didstance..but it didnt work..and eventuallii we fell thru lyke a soggy paper bag full of apples and oranges.
after her i was single for awhile and then decided it was tyme to not be afraid aniimore and try thyngs our wit a young lady i had known for quite some tyme..almost a year..now i had hurt this girl several tymes over the course of that near year and i regretted everii single tyme..but i was tired of runnin from wat i thought would be the perfect girl. we had been great friends used to spend 8 to 10 hours on the phone together i mean i told her thyngs i never told aniione..and i had never met her in person. eventho i had never seen her except in pictures i knew that i loved her..thus we started a relationship..she even came to visit me 3 tymes flyin all the way down from MD and spendin long weekends locked away in a hotel room. we had our ups and downs but we were strong..until i met a friend a civilian girl, B. thru one of my navy lesbian friends..at first we werent to cool but then we became bestfriends..B. was cool we get along reallii well one of the perks to her is that she isnt leavin aniityme soon and she has other gay friends that help me escape my military lyfe on the weekends..well my gf at the tyme didnt lyke my friendship wit B. long story short she couldnt take it and broke up wit me two weeks ago after over a year of friendship and almost 3 months of being lovers. it was crazii cuz this relationship was the hardest to get over after my verii first gf..but at the same tyme im soooo detached from my feelings of ppl leaving me due to being away from my familii for nine months and all my friends in the navy comin and goin im not all broke up over the break up..but i am feelin a bit emptii.
the crazii thyng is that i am still in love with her and miss her..but she doesnt feel the same about me so i must move on..i guess i wrong to think i had become one of the luckii ppl that find there true love at a young age..
well thats all for now..nothin new..my next blog will be a look bakk at the past year in the navy
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